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This is no surprise upon realizing that dating in the West began with 19th century prostitutes and homosexuals to later be normalized for everyone without having to prove its utility.
It was never intended as a way for heterosexuals to find long-term partners, and any culture that has implemented it has suffered both lowered marriage and birth rates.
Many people you know who seem happily married are not yet a success story, but since most of my readers are under 40, let’s lower the bar and define success as any stable marriage that is at least ten years in length.
How many people do you know who have been happily married for at least ten years?
We are dealing with narcissists who are already damaged and primed to do battle. He or she may want to punish you and this can go on for a very long time.
Often the abuser who sees he is losing control will escalate the methods of control and abuse.
Mainstream culture has taught them to essentially become a detached professional negotiator who plays endless psychological games while interacting with 1,000 or more potential partners in the hopes that one will work out.
You may be one of the lucky few who got dating to work, likely from meeting someone in your social circle, but for every one success story, there are a dozen people who are failing or will fail in their marriage goals.After absorbing the experiences of hundreds of men (and women), it has become clear to me that dating simply doesn’t work for finding a life partner.No other tactic has a greater failure rate in creating stable marriages and families than Western-style dating, a method that only excels in finding short-term sexual partners.As dating has become even more shallow thanks to apps like Tinder, most people will outright fail in finding a mate through the strategy of dating.If dating was an experimental drug intended to treat cancer, the experiment would stop halfway through because of how disastrous it is on the patient.Before writing off dating completely, we have to first define what a relationship success story looks like.I’d define it as a marriage that is maintained for at least 25 years and which results in the birth of at least one child, meaning no catastrophic divorce that harms the upbringing of children.Dating is merely a technique for gaining sex, not relationships.It’s a miracle invention for men who want no-strings attached fun, and I have benefited from it for over 15 years.Now how many people do you know who have been married for ten years and who likely have no hope for that outcome in the next decade?Unless you are a part of a religious community, I predict that you know far more people who have absolutely nothing to show for their dozens or hundreds of dates and hookups.